IT WAS FRANKIE who involved me in a movie-of-the-week moment that, luckily for us, was uneventful, except as I see it in life's rearview mirror.
I was about 5, a visitor in the Bagozzi home. His three sister's were out, his mother was busy in the kitchen, and his father no longer a full-time resident.
Frankie invited me into what had been his parents' bedroom. There he opened a dresser drawer and removed a handgun that belonged to his father. We sat together on the bed while Frankie showed me the gun. Whether it was loaded, I hadn't a clue. Whether Frankie pretended to shoot it, I don't recall, though I know he never aimed it in my direction. I was scared of the gun, but not scared of Frankie.
The experience soon faded from memory. Years later, news of a tragic accident involving a couple of kids brought flashbacks of Frankie playing with his father's gun.
FRANKIE COULD BE surprisingly creative. Soon after my father was elected mayor of Solvay, he brought home a village-owned tape recorder, a primitive and bulky reel-to-reel machine that came with no options beyond on, off, rewind and fast forward.
I showed it to Frankie who suggested we tape our own radio show, a spoof of "Dragnet". He was the producer, director, writer, star and special effects department. We followed that with "The Shadow"; the sound Frankie squeezed out of a tiny squeak in our sunroom door was truly frightening.
The tape recorder eventually went back to the village hall, minus one tape. My parents decided it was a keeper. I think it's still around, hiding among the boxed items that accompanied me to Rhode Island and later to South Carolina. When we finally get settled I'll find it, though heaven knows how I'll play it.
AS A HIGH SCHOOL freshman, Frankie told me about his plan to help his sister Pat who'd been jilted by her longtime boyfriend, Remo. Pat had graduated from high school, Remo was in his senior year and smitten with a girl named Mary Lou, a popular junior. Frankie's plan was simple: he'd ask Mary Lou for a date. He was sure she'd not only say yes, but immediately dump Remo for him, driving Remo back to sister Pat.
Frankie probably was older than Mary Lou, but he was, after all, a mere freshman. Frankie's plan never had a chance.
I moved to Ohio soon after I finished college and ran into Frankie only a couple of times during visits to my parents, who remained in their house on Russet Lane. Frankie was in business for himself, first with Bagozzi's Smoke Shop. Later he opened the first video store in the Syracuse area, Bagozzi's Video. The last time I saw him was at his small restaurant – you guessed it, Bagozzi's – in Westvale Plaza.
HIS NAME CAME UP during a high school class reunion several years ago when a few of us began exchanging Frankie Bagozzi stories. We couldn't top the classmate who told us that as a result of her daughter's recent marriage, she was now Frankie Bagozzi's mother-in-law.
It wasn't long after the reunion that Frankie learned he had lung cancer. He died on New Year's Eve, 1990. He was 54.
Frankie was an Air Force veteran who served nine years on active duty, most of that time in Japan. Later he was a 20-year member of the 174th Tactical Fighter Wing of the Air National Guard – a unit known as The Boys From Syracuse. He was survived by his wife, Patricia, and daughter Danielle, who was 4 when Frankie died.
THE QUINTESSENTIAL Frankie Bagozzi story:
It's 1944, Frankie's eight years old, I'm six. Among my favorite toys is a set of tin soldiers. One day I can't find them, and that's the first bit of news my mother reports when my father comes home from work. His response: "Frankie!"
My father charges up the street and as he approaches the Bagozzi house, he spots the soldiers spread out among the front yard shrubs. When Frankie comes to the door, my father accuses him of stealing the soldiers.
"I didn't steal them," says Frankie matter-of-factly, "I took 'em on maneuvers."
My father breaks up. He'd never been able to stay mad at the irrepressible kid he liked more than any other. Besides, he realized Frankie was telling the truth.
"Okay," says my father, finally fixing a straight face, "but when maneuvers are over, bring the soldiers back."
"Yes, sir!" barks Frankie, giving my father an exaggerated salute.
Maneuvers ended the next day and the soldiers returned to Fort Major.
JACK MAJOR |